{"id":2977,"date":"2026-04-03T20:45:15","date_gmt":"2026-04-03T18:45:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/footstepsoffreedom.nl\/?p=2351"},"modified":"2026-05-11T15:07:51","modified_gmt":"2026-05-11T13:07:51","slug":"geen-18-meer-kunst-van-het-nixen-servie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/footstepsoffreedom.nl\/en\/geen-18-meer-kunst-van-het-nixen-servie\/","title":{"rendered":"No longer 18: the art of nixing and listening well to my body."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color has-link-color has-medium-font-size wp-elements-687d8256c7f83cb9f5b05b3aa032a32c\" style=\"text-transform:uppercase\">Day 11: The Sultans Trail from Belgrade to Sofia<\/h2>\n\n<p>#reflection September 15, 2025<\/p>\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color has-link-color has-medium-font-size wp-elements-7c8c7499c962b55901512eee205eee13\" style=\"text-transform:uppercase\">I&#8217;m no longer 18&#8230;<\/h2>\n\n<p>Okay, I regret to admit that I am no longer 18. I have asked too much of my body. The high temperatures and long distances have taken their toll. All I want to do is sleep, and I&#8217;m utterly exhausted. So, a change of plans. Nothing is obligatory, and I can&#8217;t fully complete this trail anyway, and ultimately, I am on vacation.<\/p>\n\n<p>On the map, I see that there is a campsite 5 km away by the banks of <a href=\"https:\/\/nl.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Morava_(Centraal-Europa)\">the Great Morava River.<\/a> I think I\u2019ll just spend the night there and won\u2019t go hiking today. I drag myself out of bed, make some coffee, eat my yogurt, and head outside. It\u2019s still wonderfully cool; it rained heavily last night, and it&#8217;s a bit misty. However, it quickly clears up, and the sun breaks through again. Today it will be close to 30\u00b0 and tomorrow it will even be warmer.<\/p>\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color has-link-color has-medium-font-size wp-elements-60e5b502d85ab0ff886c056834300eb8\" style=\"text-transform:uppercase\">From terrace to terrace, chilling!<\/h2>\n\n<p>My plan is to have a long lunch in the city, do some shopping, and then walk to the campsite, but then I see that there is also something in the city referred to as a campsite. Just like at the monastery, it&#8217;s a picnic area where you can spend the night. There are no facilities, like a toilet, but I do see an outdoor shower. Bingo! That&#8217;s what I&#8217;m going to do; it even saves me that hour of walking. Total relaxation today.<\/p>\n\n<p>And so it happened&#8230; I sit for a long time in the shade at a picnic table in the park and write a bit. Then I walk to a small restaurant where I enjoy a Serbian burger &#8211; they really have good meat here &#8211; with a salad. I sit there for a long time again. Then I stroll over to the next terrace for coffee. I watch people and pigeons, entertaining myself with nothing. What a pleasure.<\/p>\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-light-green-cyan-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-404c0dd9ccd6114e7fa35331e8b9fde9\">My deceased friend called this &#8216;nixing.&#8217; When I, Marnix, put myself in a state of being where I follow exactly what my body and mind are asking at that moment: my head almost switched off, completely in the now, content and happy.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p>Against the darkness, I stroll to the campsite by the river. 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