{"id":2724,"date":"2026-04-05T20:13:39","date_gmt":"2026-04-05T18:13:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/footstepsoffreedom.nl\/between-grief-and-a-rugged-gorge-emotions-and-a-5-star-dinner-in-the-wild\/"},"modified":"2026-04-18T07:53:31","modified_gmt":"2026-04-18T05:53:31","slug":"between-grief-and-a-rugged-gorge-emotions-and-a-5-star-dinner-in-the-wild","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/footstepsoffreedom.nl\/en\/between-grief-and-a-rugged-gorge-emotions-and-a-5-star-dinner-in-the-wild\/","title":{"rendered":"Between grief and a rugged gorge: emotions and a 5-star dinner in the wild"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color has-link-color has-medium-font-size wp-elements-1773218e1d35a0d58208ffec0426b339\" style=\"text-transform:uppercase\">Day 13: The Sultans Trail from Belgrade to Sofia<\/h2>\n\n<p>#throwback September 17, 2026<\/p>\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color has-link-color has-medium-font-size wp-elements-e0e98ee9ea4b0f5ee44e58d74dd2b888\" style=\"text-transform:uppercase\">A lump in my throat at the cemetery<\/h2>\n\n<p>After a good night in bed number 1, I get up on time and head out feeling fresh. At the cemetery just outside the village, I witness a heartbreaking scene. A couple is working at a fresh grave, hanging a football jersey, framed behind glass, on the headstone. On the tomb is a photo of their teenage son. The woman has to be supported by her husband. I get a lump in my throat and tears in my eyes, thinking of my two incredibly dear friends who both passed away unexpectedly in less than five months. RIP M. (59) and RIP P. (60)       <\/p>\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color has-link-color has-medium-font-size wp-elements-d3f827e58a75ed086805599b02a6da89\" style=\"text-transform:uppercase\">The Si\u0107evo Gorge: beautiful but untamed<\/h2>\n\n<p>Today&#8217;s route, through and along the <a href=\"https:\/\/nl.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Si%C4%87evokloof\">Si\u0107evo Gorge<\/a>, is truly beautiful. It&#8217;s a tough route, but the enjoyment wins by a landslide. The <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sultanstrail.com\">Sultans Trail<\/a> is being heavily promoted in the Netherlands, but it&#8217;s still an unknown and new route, and unfortunately, you can tell. Some sections are difficult to navigate, and I wonder how often anyone even walks here. I heard from a local resident that <a href=\"https:\/\/nl.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Servi%C3%AB\">Serbians<\/a> aren&#8217;t much into hiking. I&#8217;m a little worried; I hope I don&#8217;t get stuck again and have to walk all the way back.     <\/p>\n\n<p>Sometimes I pass through tiny hamlets, and in the craziest places, you&#8217;ll suddenly find something that passes for a little shop. I&#8217;m as happy as a child when I score a decent banana; the other two were brown. Fruit always does me good.  <\/p>\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color has-link-color has-medium-font-size wp-elements-944349d44187929fb9e364be0f64cc1f\" style=\"text-transform:uppercase\">My own 5-star restaurant<\/h2>\n\n<p>My plan was to eat in the village of Si\u0107evo at the only restaurant on the map, but it has since closed. So, I buy eggs, tomatoes, cucumber, and more at the supermarket and prepare my meal at a picnic table overlooking the gorge. I&#8217;m just turning it into my own 5-star restaurant!  <\/p>\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color has-link-color has-medium-font-size wp-elements-592b18d194fe923a36464558c8d4f33a\" style=\"text-transform:uppercase\">A test lie-down at twilight<\/h2>\n\n<p>I want to camp today\u2014a good goal, but difficult to pull off, unfortunately. I really underestimated that. 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